Was I wrong or was she?

I have had MANY arguments with many people. I don't know why some of them even started in the first place. I have learned from almost all of them, mainly the ones that were really bad. The worst argument that I have ever had is one with my "best friend" that I have had for a long time. I don't even know where to begin with that one.

There was some miscommunication when this fight started. A lot of the time I was seen as if I was "lower" than her, meaning that she thought she was better than me. She made comments that were rude and sort of tried to bring me down. I got tired of it so I did it back, which probably wasn't a very good way to handle the situation. This when on for a while until she finally called me one day and just started saying some very hurtful things, which kind of made me think if I really wanted to be friends with her (which I still am). We talked it out and now we are all good.

After having that argument, I can see that maybe you shouldn't fight fire with fire because it only makes it worse. If you want handle the situation than you should try to communicate and say how you feel or just stop being friends. The reason we didn't stop being friends is because we both knew that we did something wrong and we have been friends for like ever, so we couldn't just throw that away because of some fight. All in all, you will fight with someone you love but it will only make your relationship stronger, if you can overcome it.